Add public API RateLimiter::GetTotalPendingRequests() (#8890)

Add public API RateLimiter::GetTotalPendingRequests() (#8890)

Summary:
Context/Summary:
As users requested, a public API RateLimiter::GetTotalPendingRequests() is added to expose the total number of pending requests for bytes in the rate limiter, which is the size of the request queue of that priority (or of all priorities, if IO_TOTAL is interested) at the time when this API is called.

Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/facebook/rocksdb/pull/8890

Test Plan:
- Passing added new unit tests
- Passing existing unit tests

Reviewed By: ajkr

Differential Revision: D30815500

Pulled By: hx235

fbshipit-source-id: 2dfa990f651c1c47378b6215c751ad76a5824300