cmake: disable deprecated warning when building googletest

cmake: disable deprecated warning when building googletest

In commit 986f6918, we updated the googletest submodule to silence a
CMake warning. However, this change broke the build due to a Clang issue
where it warns about deprecated declarations even from system headers
(see https://github.com/llvm/llvm-project/issues/76515). Since we use
`-Werror` in our compile options, these warnings become errors and fail
the build.

This change detects if we're affected by the specific combination of
compiler, standard library, and compile options that triggers this
issue. It then conditionally disables the `-Wdeprecated-declarations`
warning when building googletest to resolve build failures caused by
deprecated functions like `get_temporary_buffer<>` in the standard
library.

The build failure looks like:
```
FAILED: src/googletest/googletest/CMakeFiles/gtest.dir/src/gtest-all.cc.o
...
In file included from /home/jenkins-build/build/workspace/ceph-pull-requests/src/googletest/googletest/src/gtest-all.cc:38:
In file included from /home/jenkins-build/build/workspace/ceph-pull-requests/src/googletest/googletest/include/gtest/gtest.h:55:
In file included from /usr/lib/gcc/x86_64-linux-gnu/12/../../../../include/c++/12/memory:66:
/usr/lib/gcc/x86_64-linux-gnu/12/../../../../include/c++/12/bits/stl_tempbuf.h:263:8: error: 'get_temporary_buffer<testing::TestInfo *>' is deprecated [-Werror,-Wdeprecated-declarations]
  263 |                 std::get_temporary_buffer<value_type>(_M_original_len));
      |                      ^
/usr/lib/gcc/x86_64-linux-gnu/12/../../../../include/c++/12/bits/stl_algo.h:4996:15: note: in instantiation of member function 'std::_Temporary_buffer<__gnu_cxx::__normal_iterator<testing::TestInfo **, std::vector<testing::TestInfo *>>, testing::TestInfo *>::_Temporary_buffer' requested here
 4996 |       _TmpBuf __buf(__first, (__last - __first + 1) / 2);
      |               ^
/usr/lib/gcc/x86_64-linux-gnu/12/../../../../include/c++/12/bits/stl_algo.h:5070:23: note: in instantiation of function template specialization 'std::__stable_sort<__gnu_cxx::__normal_iterator<testing::TestInfo **, std::vector<testing::TestInfo *>>, __gnu_cxx::__ops::_Iter_comp_iter<(lambda at /home/jenkins-build/build/workspace/ceph-pull-requests/src/googletest/googletest/src/gtest.cc:3024:20)>>' requested here
 5070 |       _GLIBCXX_STD_A::__stable_sort(__first, __last,
      |                       ^
/home/jenkins-build/build/workspace/ceph-pull-requests/src/googletest/googletest/src/gtest.cc:3023:8: note: in instantiation of function template specializatio
```

Signed-off-by: Kefu Chai <tchaikov@gmail.com>