iommufd: WARN if an object is aborted with an elevated refcount

iommufd: WARN if an object is aborted with an elevated refcount

If something holds a refcount then it is at risk of UAFing. For abort
paths we expect the caller to never share the object with a parallel
thread and to clean up any refcounts it obtained on its own.

Add the missing dec inside iommufd_hwpt_paging_alloc() during error unwind
by making iommufd_hw_pagetable_attach/detach() proper pairs.

Link: https://patch.msgid.link/r/2-v1-02cd136829df+31-iommufd_syz_fput_jgg@nvidia.com
Reviewed-by: Kevin Tian <kevin.tian@intel.com>
Reviewed-by: Nicolin Chen <nicolinc@nvidia.com>
Tested-by: Nicolin Chen <nicolinc@nvidia.com>
Signed-off-by: Jason Gunthorpe <jgg@nvidia.com>