Summary:

Summary:
This PR addresses issue #3865 and implements the following approach to fix it:
 - adds `MergeContext::GetOperandsDirectionForward` and `MergeContext::GetOperandsDirectionBackward` to query merge operands in a specific order
 - `MergeContext::GetOperands` becomes a shortcut for `MergeContext::GetOperandsDirectionForward`
 - pass `MergeContext::GetOperandsDirectionBackward` to `MergeOperator::ShouldMerge` and document the order
Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/facebook/rocksdb/pull/4266

Differential Revision: D9360750

Pulled By: sagar0

fbshipit-source-id: 20cb73ff017760b062ecdcf4382560767086e092