xfs: implement busy extent tracking for rtgroups

xfs: implement busy extent tracking for rtgroups

Source kernel commit: 7e85fc2394115db56be678b617ed646563926581

For rtgroups filesystems, track newly freed (rt) space through the log
until the rt EFIs have been committed to disk.  This way we ensure that
space cannot be reused until all traces of the old owner are gone.

As a fringe benefit, we now support -o discard on the realtime device.

Signed-off-by: Darrick J. Wong <djwong@kernel.org>
Reviewed-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>