bluestore/BlueFS: fix bytes_written_slow counter with aio_write

bluestore/BlueFS: fix bytes_written_slow counter with aio_write

The bytes_written_slow performance counter was incorrectly reporting
0 when using async I/O.

When aio_write() is called with a bufferlist, it uses claim_append()
to transfer ownership of the buffer to the aio structure, leaving the
source bufferlist empty. Using t.length() after aio_write() returns 0
instead of the actual bytes written.

Fix by using the pre-calculated x_len value which contains the actual
write size and is not affected by the buffer ownership transfer.

Fixes: https://tracker.ceph.com/issues/73735
Signed-off-by: chungfengz <chungfengz@synology.com>
(cherry picked from commit 5aa5b03932c4345343e5263431914c2484bd2b14)