Merge pull request #18954 from adamemerson/wip-hole-in-the-bucket-dear-liza
rgw: Add try_refresh_bucket_info function
rgw: Add retry_raced_bucket_write
rgw: Handle stale bucket info in RGWPutMetadataBucket
rgw: Handle stale bucket info in RGWSetBucketVersioning
rgw: Handle stale bucket info in RGWSetBucketWebsite
rgw: Handle stale bucket info in RGWDeleteBucketWebsite
rgw: Handle stale bucket info in RGWPutBucketPolicy
rgw: Handle stale bucket info in RGWDeleteBucketPolicy
rgw: Expire entries in bucket info cache