vdpa_sim: replace the spinlock with a mutex to protect the state

vdpa_sim: replace the spinlock with a mutex to protect the state

The spinlock we use to protect the state of the simulator is sometimes
held for a long time (for example, when devices handle requests).

This also prevents us from calling functions that might sleep (such as
kthread_flush_work() in the next patch), and thus having to release
and retake the lock.

For these reasons, let's replace the spinlock with a mutex that gives
us more flexibility.

Suggested-by: Jason Wang <jasowang@redhat.com>
Acked-by: Jason Wang <jasowang@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Stefano Garzarella <sgarzare@redhat.com>
Message-Id: <20230404131730.45920-1-sgarzare@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Michael S. Tsirkin <mst@redhat.com>