selftests/bpf: Update arguments of connect_to_addr

selftests/bpf: Update arguments of connect_to_addr

Move the third argument "int type" of connect_to_addr() to the first one
which is closer to how the socket syscall is doing it. And add a
network_helper_opts argument as the fourth one. Then change its usages in
sock_addr.c too.

Signed-off-by: Geliang Tang <tanggeliang@kylinos.cn>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/088ea8a95055f93409c5f57d12f0e58d43059ac4.1713427236.git.tanggeliang@kylinos.cn
Signed-off-by: Martin KaFai Lau <martin.lau@kernel.org>