fstests: check for filesystem FS_IOC_FSSETXATTR support
With "_require_xfs_io_command chattr <letter>", check that
flag can be set/cleared using FS_IOC_FSSETXATTR ioctl, similar
to "_require_chattr <letter>" and FS_IOC_SETFLAGS ioctl.
Update the documentation and the tests that use
"_require_xfs_io_command chattr" to test filesystem support
and not only xfs_io support.