rgw/notification: Load bucket attrs before calling publish_reserve.
As part of PR# 55657, publish_reserve would reload bucket to ensure bucket_attrs are loaded. However for lc events, where the bucket attrs were already loaded, the reloading was causing crash but there was no obvious root cause, so to avoid the crashes, remove reloading of bucket in publish_reserve and put the onus on callers to load the bucket before calling publish_reserve.