we no longer rely on polymorphism for the s3/swift variants of
`RGWAccessControlPolicy`, so `req_state` can store `bucket_acl`,
`object_acl` and `user_acl` by value
most functions now take these acls by const- or mutable reference
instead of pointers since they won't be nullptr
some code paths won't initialize some of these bucket/object/user acl
variables, and we rely on `RGWAccessControlPolicy::verify_permissions()`
to return false for those because we won't match an empty owner or
array of grants
in only one case, `verify_user_permissions()` has to return true when
`user_acl` is uninitialized, because S3 doesn't have user acls so
uninitialized user acls should not deny access