mon/PGMap: let pg_string_state() return boost::optional<>
better to be specific, so we don't run into the same problem even we
are using the MSB of uint64_t for a pg state bit in future. we could,
however use uint64_t(-1) to indicate the pg_string_state()'s failure to
parse the state string, because pg_string_state() only translate a
single state a time. but it's always better to be explicit than
implicit.