mds: fix race of fetching large dirfrag

mds: fix race of fetching large dirfrag

When a dirfrag contains more than 'mds_dir_keys_per_op' items, MDS
needs to send multiple 'omap-get-vals' requests to fetch the dirfrag
completely. There is a race if MDS commits the dirfrag in the middle
of these 'omap-get-vals' requests.

Re-fetch from the beginning if dirfrag get committed in the middle of
omap-get-vals requests.

Fixes: https://tracker.ceph.com/issues/49617
Signed-off-by: Erqi Chen <chenerqi@kuaishou.com>
(cherry picked from commit 0767336b43155426af8d4ea9f85a7cfbbf032e8c)