pipe: only read AuthSessionHandler under pipe_lock

pipe: only read AuthSessionHandler under pipe_lock

session_security, the AuthSessionHandler for a Pipe, is deleted and
recreated while the pipe_lock is held. read_message() is called
without pipe_lock held, and examines session_security. To make this
safe, make session_security a shared_ptr and take a reference to it
while the pipe_lock is still held, and use that shared_ptr in
read_message().

This may have caused crashes like:

*** Error in `qemu-system-x86_64': invalid fastbin entry (free): 0x00007f42a4002de0 ***
======= Backtrace: =========
/lib/x86_64-linux-gnu/libc.so.6(+0x80a46)[0x7f452f1f3a46]
/usr/lib/x86_64-linux-gnu/libnss3.so(PK11_FreeSymKey+0xa8)[0x7f452e72ff98]
/usr/lib/librados.so.2(+0x2a18cd)[0x7f453451a8cd]
/usr/lib/librados.so.2(_ZNK9CryptoKey7encryptEP11CephContextRKN4ceph6buffer4listERS4_RSs+0x71)[0x7f4534519421]
/usr/lib/librados.so.2(_Z21encode_encrypt_enc_blIN4ceph6buffer4listEEvP11CephContextRKT_RK9CryptoKeyRS2_RSs+0xfe)[0x7f453451859e]
/usr/lib/librados.so.2(_Z14encode_encryptIN4ceph6buffer4listEEiP11CephContextRKT_RK9CryptoKeyRS2_RSs+0xa2)[0x7f45345186d2]
/usr/lib/librados.so.2(_ZN19CephxSessionHandler23check_message_signatureEP7Message+0x246)[0x7f4534516866]
/usr/lib/librados.so.2(_ZN4Pipe12read_messageEPP7Message+0xdcc)[0x7f453462ecbc]
/usr/lib/librados.so.2(_ZN4Pipe6readerEv+0xa5c)[0x7f453464059c]
/usr/lib/librados.so.2(_ZN4Pipe6Reader5entryEv+0xd)[0x7f4534643ecd]
/lib/x86_64-linux-gnu/libpthread.so.0(+0x7f8e)[0x7f452f543f8e]
/lib/x86_64-linux-gnu/libc.so.6(clone+0x6d)[0x7f452f26da0d]

Partially-fixes: #6480
Backport: dumpling, emperor
Signed-off-by: Josh Durgin <josh.durgin@inktank.com>
(cherry picked from commit 1d74170a4c252f35968ccfbec8e432582e92f638)