mds: properly update rstat/fragstat when fragmentating directory
The stale rstat/dirstat check in CDir::merge() is wrong. dirfrag's
rstat/fragstat is stale if the accounted rstat/fragstat version isn't
equal to inode's rstat/dirstat version.
For CDir::split(), no need to worry about if the rstat/fragstat of the
origin dirfrag is stale. If it's stale, the rstat/fragstat of the
resulting dirfrags are stale too.