The CEPH_INO_DOTDOT thing is quite strange. Under most OS (Linux
included), the parent of the root is itself. IOW, at the root, '.' and
'..' refer to the same inode.
Change the ceph client to do the same, as this allows users to get
valid stat info for '..', as well as elimnating some special-casing.
Also in several places, we're checking dn_set.empty as an indicator
of being the root. While that is true for the root, it's also true
for unlinked directories.
This patch has treats them the same. An unlinked directory will
be reparented to itself, effectively acting as a root of its own.