mds: adjust cap acquisition throttles

mds: adjust cap acquisition throttles

For production workloads, these defaults rarely help. Adjust
accordingly. For a steady state "find" workload, these new throttles
will prevent acquiring more than ~2300 caps/second which is quite
manageable with typical recall rates.

    -ln(0.5) / 30 * 100k = 2310

Fixes: https://tracker.ceph.com/issues/62114
Signed-off-by: Patrick Donnelly <pdonnell@redhat.com>
(cherry picked from commit f290ef9d0d2d09fb978d56c46be704c6efd45c43)

Conflicts:
	src/common/options/mds.yaml.in: trivial