mon/OSDMonitor: drop stale failure_info

mon/OSDMonitor: drop stale failure_info

failure_info keeps strong references of the MOSDFailure messages
sent by osd or peon monitors, whenever monitor starts to handle
an MOSDFailure message, it registers it in its OpTracker. and
the failure report messageis unregistered when monitor acks them
by either canceling them or replying the reporters with a new
osdmap marking the target osd down. but if this does not happen,
the failure reports just pile up in OpTracker. and monitor considers
them as slow ops. and they are reported as SLOW_OPS health warning.

in theory, it does not take long to mark an unresponsive osd down if
we have enough reporters. but there is chance, that a reporter fails
to cancel its report before it reboots, and the monitor also fails
to collect enough reports and mark the target osd down. so the
target osd never gets an osdmap marking it down, so it won't send
an alive message to monitor to fix this.

in this change, we check for the stale failure info in tick(), and
simply drop the stale reports. so the messages can released and
marked "done".

Fixes: https://tracker.ceph.com/issues/47380
Signed-off-by: Kefu Chai <kchai@redhat.com>
(cherry picked from commit a124ee85b03e15f4ea371358008ecac65f9f4e50)