debian, install-deps.sh: use Build-Profiles to optionally build debian libjaeger

debian, install-deps.sh: use Build-Profiles to optionally build debian libjaeger
library

* use pkg.ceph.jaeger for debian optional pkgs
remove mangling needing install-deps, instead use, buildProfileSpec feature
introduced for debian.  https://wiki.debian.org/BuildProfileSpec * check and

* set extraopts in debian/rules using pkg.ceph.jaeger
see: https://github.com/ceph/ceph/pull/38783#discussion_r662995612

* cleanup libjaeger.install mangling from CMakeLists

Signed-off-by: Deepika Upadhyay <dupadhya@redhat.com>