librbd/cache/pwl: fix bug of flush request blocked by deferd IO
Flush requests do not need to be queued behind the defer_io queue,
should be issued immediately. Otherwise, there will be a deadlock
scenario in which dirty data is waiting for flush req, flush req is
waiting for defer_io empty, and defer_io is waiting for dirty data
persistence to release space. So this sometimes occur when the cache
is small but the IO is large or the queue depth is large.