msg/Pipe: hold pipe_lock during important parts of accept()

msg/Pipe: hold pipe_lock during important parts of accept()

Previously we did not bother with locking for accept() because we were
not visible to any other threads.  However, we need to close accepting
Pipes from mark_down_all(), which means we need to handle interference.

Fix up the locking so that we hold pipe_lock when looking at Pipe state
and verify that we are still in the ACCEPTING state any time we retake
the lock.

Signed-off-by: Sage Weil <sage@inktank.com>
(cherry picked from commit ecab4bb9513385bd765cca23e4e2fadb7ac4bac2)