.github/workflows: switch to pull_request_target trigger

.github/workflows: switch to pull_request_target trigger

Switch the trigger from `pull_request` to `pull_request_target` so that
the workflow definition on `main` is evaluated for PRs targeting active
release branches (main, umbrella, tentacle, squid). This allows the check
to run cleanly across release branches without requiring workflow file
backports to each branch.

Additionally:
- Update `src/script/verify-qa` to accept an optional target directory argument ($1).
- Run the trusted `verify-qa` script from `main` against the checked-out PR directory (`./pull_request`).

The concern of exfiltrating secrets is important but not relevant here:
we're not using the secrets in the definition and we explicitly
downgrade the github token to `read` permission.

Signed-off-by: Patrick Donnelly <pdonnell@ibm.com>