Add rbdcache max dirty object option

Add rbdcache max dirty object option

Librbd will calculate max dirty object according to rbd_cache_max_size, it
doesn't suitable for every case. If user set image order 24, the calculating
result is too small for reality. It will increase the overhead of trim call
which is called each read/write op.

Now we make it as option for tunning, by default this value is calculated.

Signed-off-by: Haomai Wang <haomaiwang@gmail.com>
(cherry picked from commit 3c7229a2fea98b30627878c86b1410c8eef2b5d7)