mon: fix mds metadata lost in one case.

mon: fix mds metadata lost in one case.

In most cases, peon's pending_metadata is inconsistent with mon's db.
When a peon turns into leader, and at the same time a active mds stops,
the new leader may flush wrong mds metadata into db. So we meed to
update mds metadata from db at every fsmap change.

This phenomenon can be reproduce like this:
A Cluster with 3 mon and 3 mds (one active, other two standby), 6 osd.
step 1. stop two standby mds;
step 2. restart all mon; (make pending_medata consistent with db)
step 3. start other two mds
step 4. stop leader mon
step 5. run "ceph mds metadata" command to check mds metadata
step 6. stop active mds
step 7. run "ceph mds metadata" command to check mds metadata again

In step 7, we would find mds metadata lost.

Fixes: https://tracker.ceph.com/issues/63166
Signed-off-by: shimin <shimin@kuaishou.com>
(cherry picked from commit 56cbf3f0716b556c815487d719abe86021125925)