ObjectCacher: keep track of outstanding reads on an object

ObjectCacher: keep track of outstanding reads on an object

Reads always use C_ReadFinish as a callback (and they are the only
user of this callback). Keep an xlist of these for each object, so
they can remove themselves as they finish. To prevent racing requests
and with discard removing objects from the cache, clear the xlist in
the object destructor, so if the Object is still valid the set_item
will still be on the list.

Make the ObjectCacher constructor take an Object* instead of the pool
and object id, which are derived from the Object* anyway.

Signed-off-by: Josh Durgin <josh.durgin@inktank.com>