qa/workunits/rados/test_envlibrados_for_rocksdb: use cmake not make
* so we just rely on a single build system instead of two of them, the
other place we use cmake is cmake/modules/BuildRockDB.cmake.
* disable gflags when building rocksdb, it's optional and does not help
in the sense of testing librados support.
* disable prompts when installing on debian, to silence warnings like:
debconf: unable to initialize frontend: Dialog
* drop --force-yes option, as it is deprecated, and is replaced with
--allow-downgrades, --allow-remove-essential,
--allow-change-held-packages, but none of them apply in our case.