rocksdb: increase default cache size to 512 MB

rocksdb: increase default cache size to 512 MB

For filestore OSDs, this is probably a good idea anyway, and is generally
not going to be hugely impactful on the memory footprint (where users
have been told to provide 1 GB RAM per 1 TB storage for a long time now).

For bluestore OSDs, this value is meaningless as we're autotuning this
anyway.

For mons, this is a more reasonable default.

Signed-off-by: Sage Weil <sage@redhat.com>
(cherry picked from commit cbfc3ee1921f4780be6d4071e441818b1390101c)

Conflicts:
	src/common/options.cc
- trivial resolution