OSDMonitor: only reject MOSDBoot based on up_from if inst matches

OSDMonitor: only reject MOSDBoot based on up_from if inst matches

If the osd actually restarts, there is no guarrantee that the epoch will
advance past up_from.  If the inst is different, it can't really be a
dup.  At worst, it might be a queued MOSDBoot from a previous inst, but
in that case, the real inst would see itself marked up, and then back
down causing it to try booting again.

Fixes: http://tracker.ceph.com/issues/17899
Signed-off-by: Samuel Just <sjust@redhat.com>
(cherry picked from commit 033ad5b46c0492134e72a8372e44e3ef1358d2df)