objecter: avoid race when reset down osd's session

objecter: avoid race when reset down osd's session

consider the sequence step of follow:
thread A: objecter handle new osdmap which says osd.X down
thread B: objecter reset session of osd.X,then reopen session
thread A: close seesion of osd.X because he is down

in such circumstance, we will hit failure on assert(is_up(osd))
the backtrace is:
1. ceph::__ceph_assert_fail(char const*, char const*, int, char const*) ()
2. OSDMap::get_inst(int) const [clone .part.224] ()
3. Objecter::_reopen_session(Objecter::OSDSession*) ()
4. Objecter::ms_handle_reset(Connection*) ()

Fixes: https://tracker.ceph.com/issues/24601
Signed-off-by: Zengran Zhang <zhangzengran@sangfor.com.cn>
(cherry picked from commit a67141528cd3560e7df28c82d2cf0fae8dac388e)