rgw_file: all directories are virtual with respect to contents

rgw_file: all directories are virtual with respect to contents

This change causes directory handles to always report an mtime of
"now."  This is not an invalidate per se--it interacts with the
nfs implementation to produce that result when the implementation
updates its cached attributes.  Hence, it can be modulated by timers
or other rules governing attribute caching at the upper layer.

Fixes: http://tracker.ceph.com/issues/40204
Signed-off-by: Matt Benjamin <mbenjamin@redhat.com>
(cherry picked from commit b4c7d0faeff667c25ab255786999ef0cc844ea2b)