Objecter: resend linger ops on any interval change

Objecter: resend linger ops on any interval change

Watch/notify ops need to be resent after a pg split occurs, as well as
a few other circumstances that the existing objecter checks did not
catch.

Refactor the check the OSD uses for this to add a version taking the
more basic types instead of the whole OSD map, and stash the needed
info when an op is sent.

Fixes: #9806
Backport: giant, firefly, dumpling
Signed-off-by: Josh Durgin <josh.durgin@inktank.com>
(cherry picked from commit cb9262abd7fd5f0a9f583bd34e4c425a049e56ce)

Conflicts:
	src/osd/osd_types.cc
	src/osdc/Objecter.cc
            Minor differences.