rgw: bump Apache Arrow submodule from 17.0.0 to 19.0.1

rgw: bump Apache Arrow submodule from 17.0.0 to 19.0.1

When WITH_SYSTEM_ARROW is false, Ceph builds Arrow from the bundled
src/apache submodule. Our CI uses ubuntu:jammy as the base image, which
does not package libarrow-dev, so the bundled path is always taken there.

Arrow 17.0.0 vendors a copy of Thrift whose download URLs are no longer
reachable, breaking CI builds that try to fetch them at configure time.

Bump arrow submodule to 19.0.1, the latest Arrow release that:
- builds successfully on ubuntu:jammy, and
- requires only CMake 3.22 (the version shipped by ubuntu:jammy)

See also

CMake version shipped by ubuntu:jammy
- https://packages.ubuntu.com/jammy/cmake

arrow releases' CMake support
- maint-19.0.1: https://github.com/apache/arrow/blob/272715f6df2a042d69881ffa03d5078c58e4b345/cpp/CMakeLists.txt#L18
- maint-20.0.0: https://github.com/apache/arrow/blob/3ad0370a04ccdae638755b94c3c31c8760a11193/cpp/CMakeLists.txt#L18

arrow enabled minmalloc by default
-
https://github.com/apache/arrow/commit/b907c5dadb516b525c8fafbf34b0116d44044733

Because arrow uses the bundled mialloc library be default, we need
to disable it in the same commit bumping up the submodule.

Signed-off-by: Kefu Chai <k.chai@proxmox.com>