Merge pull request #23306 from penglaiyxy/msg_branch

msg: ceph_abort() when there are enough accepter errors in msg server

Reviewed-by: Greg Farnum <gfarnum@redhat.com>
Reviewed-by: Kefu Chai <kchai@redhat.com>

diff --cc src/common/legacy_config_opts.h
Simple merge

diff --cc src/common/options.cc
Simple merge

diff --cc src/msg/async/AsyncMessenger.cc
Simple merge

diff --cc src/msg/simple/Accepter.cc
Simple merge