Merge pull request #51318 from Matan-B/wip-matanb-c-avoid-msg-con

crimson: Avoid any Message's connection usage

Reviewed-by: Samuel Just <sjust@redhat.com>
Reviewed-by: Radoslaw Zarzynski <rzarzyns@redhat.com>
Reviewed-by: Liu-Chunmei <chunmei.liu@intel.com>
Reviewed-by: Yingxin Cheng <yingxin.cheng@intel.com>

diff --cc src/crimson/osd/shard_services.h
Simple merge

diff --cc src/osd/OpRequest.h
Simple merge